"Il tuo valore traspare da ciò che manca quando non ci sei . E a volte, far sentire agli altri quel vuoto è l'unico modo per fargli capire quanto sei speciale".
This is such a life changing perspective and something I have been trying to embody lately.
Thank you for this article, I loved reading it.
I have done this lately. Moving overseas helped to clarify who is there and who isn’t when I step back. I’ve been delightfully surprised in many instances. I’ve also noticed how much I miss others when they don’t have time too. I have filled that space too. How nice it is to allow yourself to be chosen. On the other hand I have also had some friendships fall away. And you’re right, we experience and we win regardless. Even with a bit of grief.
I really appreciate you sharing this. Distance often reveals the true shape of our relationships in ways we cannot see when we are immersed in them. I love that you mentioned allowing yourself to be chosen, it is such an important part of the process. And yes, sometimes the “win” includes a bit of grief, but even that means something real was there.
I’m curious — have you ever stepped back from a relationship and been surprised by the response? Did they step forward… or fade?
Immancabilmente si sono fatti avanti!
"Il tuo valore traspare da ciò che manca quando non ci sei . E a volte, far sentire agli altri quel vuoto è l'unico modo per fargli capire quanto sei speciale".
“Whatever you treat as an experience, you win”
This is such a life changing perspective and something I have been trying to embody lately.
Thank you for this article, I loved reading it.
I have done this lately. Moving overseas helped to clarify who is there and who isn’t when I step back. I’ve been delightfully surprised in many instances. I’ve also noticed how much I miss others when they don’t have time too. I have filled that space too. How nice it is to allow yourself to be chosen. On the other hand I have also had some friendships fall away. And you’re right, we experience and we win regardless. Even with a bit of grief.
I really appreciate you sharing this. Distance often reveals the true shape of our relationships in ways we cannot see when we are immersed in them. I love that you mentioned allowing yourself to be chosen, it is such an important part of the process. And yes, sometimes the “win” includes a bit of grief, but even that means something real was there.